I remember once when in a fit of rage I abused my friend and called her bitch. She didn’t talk to me for next two days, the third day she said “You called me bitch?” (Read it with a tone and emotion filled with accusation and hurt), at that moment I expressed my grief most uncomfortably and not at all successfully. Later on the friendship became so strong that “Bitch” was not an abuse any more, it was more an expression of fond.
Talking of abuse, I was kind of concluding while thinking today morning that in all the bad words or abusive language that has been invented, women have been the target.
Now, is that power play by the male species who have invented the abusive language or their ego or because of the love for women or the absence of it. I don’t know why all the abusive words, slang, sentences, expressions etc will have the female gender in some or the other way
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Now! For Example if you have to swear on a girl you will call her “Bitch”, I agree that’s fine. But if you have to call names to a guy you will call him “Son of a bitch” now why do you want to call some ones mom a bitch rather than the person who has actually caused you harm (Or not).
I happened to discuss this example with a friend of mine, his argument was, “That’s not true, we have abusive words that only concerns men, like Dog, Scoundrel, Bastard”.
Well in my opinion “Dog” doesn’t sound as abusive as “Bitch”, Dictionary meaning of “Scoundrel” is evil person and a person can be male and female both, so that’s again a unisex abusive word and the last word was “Bastard” famously used when you want to say that your mother don’t know who your father is.
My friend’s argument to this is still pending, but have you managed to notice the “mother doesn’t know who the father is” becomes an abusive word. So what! a girl had sex with more than one guy and forgot to keep a check. Why should it be an issue? Men never care about how many girls they are having sex with and they don’t put a check on whom they are knocking off. But it’s a Big Deal; it’s so big that an independent abusive word is born due to it.
Recently, I had a chance to be in a different country for 15 days… for all the time I have stayed there I saw welcoming and smiling faces saying “bitte Schon”(please), “danke schon”(thanks) and when I landed back in New Delhi air port and reached the taxi stand. I saw ugly taxi drivers drunk and high early in the morning swearing without any reason to what ever is coming in their way “Behen C***” (Sister F****r), “Maa C***” (Mother “F****r).
Now! What the hell are the mom and the sis doing in between all of what ever is going on?
I the middle of all this thinking I grabbed a news paper and started reading it. I learned there is some Russian scientist named “Tesla” who was equally capable as “Edison” or may be ahead of him and was about to invent “Wireless transmission of electricity”, I thought Oh!! That’s fantastic, but unfortunately “Tesla” was poisoned and I don’t know why “Edison” didn’t work on it further. But I was wondering, I have never heard of a female inventor!
Why? Have you heard of any?
The major event that I would like to share is my participation in the Airtel Delhi Half Marathon and above all completion of the same.
